Ever find the night your 'squeeze' really wants to talk, your simultaneously getting that urgent call you've been expecting.
What about having your "so called " cousin stop by the night you have to finish a term-paper
to complete.
Oooh, and how about that heart-to-heart your sibling just "has to have" with you, the same morning you're late for a final exam.
Notice a pattern, in these three senarios? I do, because I've experienced them all.
In this concrete jungle of a world we live in, your worst enemy, after yourself is often your family & friends. Think about it. If your enemy or some adversary force wanted to get to
you, who else would they use?
I call this the howl of, the familiar avatar. Why because, an avatar has two faces one for you...and one behind the scenes. The tactic, I am referring to occurs, anywhere, despite religion, race, or culture. We've seen it in movies, TV, and music, and if you look closely, experience it every day.
The fact of the matter is: Just because someone is your "Family member, Husband,' Friend, or whatever trustworthy title they hold, doesn't mean they're always going to act in your best interest. Don't just take my word for it. Check it out. Ask some one you often give alot to, for a favor of some kind and ask, while there doing something important to them. See how quickly they put you, in your place. So why, feel bad for standing up.
My personal problem 'used' to be not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings, be rude, etc etc. But recently, I decided that that was bull. Today, I speak up. I say No...and I let go. But most of all I choose me, cause' if i don't, no one else will either. Who will you choose? by/ Kadraj
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